A Letter From a Reader: The Annette Set (Elaine)

A letter from a reader

At 62, I thought a special dinner meant wearing a dress. I had stopped believing trousers could ever look special enough.

Six things the Annette gets right that forty years of occasion dresses got wrong, written down by a customer, not a shop.

ElaineElaine · Customer · Hervey Bay, Queensland · 5 min read

I am 62, I live in Hervey Bay, and until recently I had a rule about getting dressed up that I could not even remember making. If an invitation said dinner, anniversary or birthday, I automatically looked for a dress. Never mind that I have always enjoyed wearing trousers. Somehow I had decided trousers were for ordinary days and dresses were for special ones, and the occasion dresses in my wardrobe were becoming more trouble than pleasure: one with a waistband I kept thinking about over dinner, another that needed a particular pair of shoes, a third I had not worn since a family photograph years ago.

Then, a fortnight before my sister Wendy’s seventieth, Peter and I had lunch at the marina in Urangan, and at the next table a woman about my age was celebrating something with her family. She was in white from top to toe: a soft, layered top falling over one shoulder and long, wide-leg trousers that moved when she got up to hug a grandchild. She looked more dressed up than anyone in the room, and she was the only one who looked completely comfortable. She sat through a long lunch, stood for the photographs, sat again, and never once tugged at anything.

Her name is Lorna, she was down from Gympie for her granddaughter’s birthday, and when I asked, she told me it was the Annette, a two-piece set from Portsea Boutique, a small Australian boutique that has been quietly dressing women our age for a few years now. I ordered it that evening, fully expecting to send it back. I did not, and I wrote to the boutique to tell them why, and they asked if they could put my letter up for other women to read. So here it is, the six things it gets right.

Dressing up for a woman my age, if you have looked lately, comes in two piles. One pile is the occasion dress, with a waistband to think about all evening and shoes to match. The other is the trouser suit, with a stiff jacket that makes a family birthday feel like a board meeting. Uncomfortable, or too formal. I had given up choosing between them, and Lorna at the next table was the proof that I did not have to.

The white Annette two-piece hanging on a hanger by the bedroom window

Hanging by the window: the sort of simple white outfit I had somehow never thought to look for.

1

The layered top skims, and it looks dressed up on its own

This is the thing I would tell you if I only had a minute. The top is not an ordinary T-shirt or a stiff blouse. It has an asymmetrical layered design with an open-shoulder detail, and the listing says the soft layers gently skim the body. That is exactly what they do. The layers fall softly over the middle rather than sitting on it, which is the part of me I have spent years hiding under jackets. And because the cascading shape already looks finished, I did not spend the afternoon trying on three different jackets to decide which one made it look smart enough.

★★★★★

“I bought it because the layered top glides over my tummy.”

— Deborah S. · Ballarat, VIC
2

The wide-leg trousers move like a long dress

The trousers have a wide-leg silhouette, and that was the clever surprise for me. From a distance there is some of the graceful movement I enjoy in a long dress, but they are still trousers. I watched Lorna walk to the door at the marina and the legs swung with her, nothing stiff about it. I have always felt quite at home in trousers. I simply wanted a pair that looked right at an evening celebration rather than like something I might wear to do the banking. The long, flowing shape is what makes the difference, and the fabric has the flowy feel the listing promises.

Elaine's hand holding the soft white layers of the Annette top

The fabric up close. Light, soft layers, and you can see the second one underneath.

★★★★★

“The wide legs flow as I walk. I felt graceful rather than stiff.”

— Christine H. · Perth, WA
3

Occasion-ready, and comfortable to sit in all evening

The trousers have a high-rise elastic waistband. It is not the first detail anyone notices in the photograph, but it is the one I was most grateful for. Family dinners are for sitting, talking, eating and getting up for another photograph, and I do not want a waistband to become the main event. Wendy’s dinner was at a restaurant along the Esplanade, a long table with the whole family around it, and we were there from six until well after ten. I sat, I ate dessert, I stood for every photograph my daughter Emma wanted, and I did not think about my clothes once.

Elaine wearing the white Annette two-piece on the restaurant terrace on the Esplanade

On the restaurant terrace on the Esplanade, before Wendy’s dinner. Peter took this one.

★★★★★

“Dressy enough for my granddaughter's engagement party, yet comfortable to sit in all evening.”

— Patricia D. · Wollongong, NSW
4

A fresh white that suits a warm spring evening

I chose the White because it goes with almost every pair of dress shoes, earrings and handbags I already own, and it looks so fresh on a warm evening. Sometimes the simplest colour leaves the most room for the things you enjoy wearing. I did not need anything sparkly or new to make the layered top look interesting. The care is easy too: the listing says machine wash cold on a gentle cycle and hang to dry, which is how I treat everything I actually wear. The morning of the dinner I left both pieces folded on the kitchen table while I found my earrings, and they looked crisp and ready.

The white Annette top and trousers folded on the kitchen table with coffee and roses

Folded on the kitchen table the morning of the dinner. Two pieces, one outfit, no wardrobe puzzle.

★★★★★

“The white has a lovely crisp look, and you can't see through it.”

— Wendy F. · Brisbane, QLD
5

Two pieces that go together, and apart

How many times have I bought a beautiful top and then discovered I own nothing quite right to wear with it? The Annette is a matching set, so the top and the trousers share the same colour and the same flowing look, and the listing calls it a complete outfit instantly. That is exactly how it felt. But the pieces also work on their own. The week after the dinner I wore the white trousers to church with a plain blue top from my drawer, and the layered top has been out with my own dark trousers to a lunch in Maryborough. One purchase, and I have three outfits from it already.

★★★★★

“The following week, I wore the trousers again, this time with a navy top.”

— Sandra P. · Hobart, TAS
6

People ask, and it comes in five colours and S to 3XL

I was not expecting to be asked about it, at my own sister’s birthday. Wendy took one look at me as I came in and asked where it was from, and one of her friends from bowls asked again over the main course. The Annette is listed in White, Black, Blue, Navy Blue and Red, and in sizes from S (8–10) through to 3XL (18–20). My one piece of advice is to check the size chart for both pieces before you order, because the top and the trousers have their own measurements, and the trouser length is listed for every size too.

★★★★★

“We hadn't even reached dessert when my sister asked me for the link.”

— Judith K. · Glenelg, SA

The Annette, against the occasion dresses I had been buying

You can buy something to wear to a birthday dinner almost anywhere. I know, because I have owned most of them, and given the rest to the op shop. Here is the difference, laid out plainly.

The occasion dresses

A waistband I kept thinking about all evening

Needs particular shoes and a jacket to finish it

Lovely on the hanger, seldom worn

Only ever works as one outfit

Never quite felt like myself

The Annette

High-rise elastic waistband, comfortable all evening

A complete outfit in two matching pieces

Worn three times in a fortnight

Top and trousers also work on their own

Dressed up, and still entirely me

About the price

I will be straightforward about the price, because it was the thing I looked at most carefully. The Annette is A$89.99 for both pieces, and it was A$180.00.

The boutique says this is their sale price, that they sell directly, with no middleman taking a cut, and that is how they can keep it there. That is their arithmetic, not mine. What I can tell you is that I have paid more than that for an occasion dress I wore once, and this is two pieces I have already worn three different ways.

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If you have spent forty years reaching for a dress every time an invitation arrives, because somebody once decided trousers were not special enough, this is the outfit I would hand you instead.

— Elaine

The Annette Two-Piece Layered Set in white laid out on the bed

The Annette Two-Piece Layered Set

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A$180.00A$89.99
  • Asymmetrical layered top with open-shoulder detail
  • Matching wide-leg trousers
  • High-rise elastic waistband
  • Soft, breathable fabric, machine wash cold
  • White, Black, Blue, Navy Blue and Red
  • Sizes S (8–10) to 3XL (18–20), free delivery across Australia
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About the writer. Elaine is 62 and lives in Hervey Bay, Queensland, with her husband Peter and Teddy, a little dog from the rescue shelter. She is a customer, not a writer, and she was not paid to write this letter.

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